Sunday, December 14, 2008

Let it snow!

It started snowing in the afternoon last Wednesday, and it didn't quit until after 10 p.m. What a treat! Now if we could only get some mountains here, Scott would feel at home.


Ian showing his bunny the snowflakes.
We also thought hurricanes never hit Houston... guess it really is time to get serious about food storage!

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Giveaways!

Like cool blogs and free stuff? Check out this giveaway, and this one too! Hurry though, the contests are already underway.

I won body balm and hand soap earlier this week and received the delightful package from The Soap Seduction in the mail today! Thank you, Smitten Blog Designs, for the beautiful templates and your awesome 12 Day Give-Oh-Giveaway!

sick for 10 days = folding laundry for 10 years

I warned him not to push it over...


Thanks for all your well-wishes. We are all doing much better.

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day... part deux

Thanks to this classic book for this post title.


Joseph has an ear infection. And RSV.

RSV is scary in such a young baby. And poor Joseph sure is miserable. Thankfully he was diagnosed and started treatment before the pediatrician's office closed for the weekend.

This is what we'll be up to for the next 7 days, 3 times a day.
And this. More than 20 doses a day. This is when I become very organized.

Good thing there are lots of squirrels to watch in our backyard, because we may not socialize with humans again until summer.
But, since 80% of a situation is always good:
We have great friends who loaned us the expensive breathing machine. And my boys have a great daddy who has been around a whole lot this week to take care of us. And we are all on the road to recovery.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Please Don't Report Me


Ian, Joseph and I are sick. Really sick.

Ian was the first to exhibit symptoms including high fever, terrible cough, "productive" sneezing, and a general overflow of mucus. Joseph and I joined Ian several days later. Scott employed positive thinking to avoid this one.

Yesterday I decided a little fresh air may do our bodies some good. Since Joseph was asleep upstairs, we postponed a walk around the neighborhood and Ian and I just went for a stroll in the backyard. I decided my poor satsuma tree needed some moisture, so we came back in to fill a water pitcher.

While the water was running, I heard Joseph coughing, then chocking over the baby monitor. I put Ian down and dashed upstairs. When I got there, Joseph was breathing just fine, so I set about giving him his acid reflux medicine and soothing him back to sleep.

Usually when I leave Ian behind, he protests, demands to know where I am going, and throws a tantrum/hits the blinds/throws things at the satellite box until I return. But as I soothed Joseph, I didn't hear any of this going on downstairs. I smiled to myself and thought it wonderful that Ian was concerned with his brothers safety and was so patiently awaiting my return.

When I did return, about 10 minutes later, Ian was no where to be found. (Cue panicking mother) I looked first to see if I had left the back door open. It was shut tightly. Then I searched in all the usual and unusual hiding places, but found nothing. And then finally, I spotted Ian out the window in the back yard. I guess I had left the back door open, and he had just been nice enough to shut it behind him.

Despite the fact that he was barefoot and strolling among fire-ant landmines, he was perfectly safe. Since Joseph was now crying upstairs, I decided we would take a walk around the block afterall. So I put Joseph in the baby carrier and Ian in his stroller and we set out. Wanting to travel light, we left through the garage and used the code to shut the garage behind us, instead of bringing my keys.

Turns out the boys hated my fresh-air idea, and both cried from the moment we left. Ian wanted his bunny. Joseph hates his baby carrier. Both were hungry and tired. And sick. So I shortened our route and tried to cross a street by driving the stroller off a curb, instead of waiting to encounter a ramp. It was a high curb, but I was still surprised at how long it was taking for the front stroller wheels to hit the street. Ian was still crying. I finally look down and saw that I hadn't locked the stroller into the open position -- it had folded up with Ian's chest pressed to his thighs. So sorry, Ian.

I locked the stroller into the open position, and we proceeded immiediatly home. Both boys were still crying. This walk was such a bad idea.

When we arrived home, I parked the stroller beside me and attempted to open the garage door. The code just wasn't working. I entered the code over and over again. Ian stops crying and starts chanting "Try again! Try again!" So I tried again. Again and again and again.

Finally, my little coach gives up and starts saying "Uh-oh! Uh-oh! Uh-oh!" Eventually I notice that his little voice is getting quieter and quieter.... the stroller that was just beside me was now rolling backwards down the driveway! I ran after him and reached him just as the stroller jolted to a stop in the street. Ian looked nervous, but thankfully was perfectly fine.

I rolled Ian back up the driveway, and now instead of feeling frustrated, I kissed his little blond head and felt thankful a car hadn't come by at just the wrong moment. I tried the code 8 more times, and then finally called a friend to come rescue us. As soon as I dialed her number, the garage door magically lifted open.

We unloaded our weary, sick selves into the house. Ian got his bunny and then went to find his beloved "Dingle Bells", which I'd hung over the front door knob. They were "stuck" and he yanked on them 'til the string split. Dingle Bells and beads showered the front hallway. Now I stay awake at night wondering what hidden corners those little chocking hazards were flung to.

Sigh.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Christmas Season is Here!

We had a great Thanksgiving. Scott made a delicious turkey and baked an incredible apple pie -- including a crust made from scratch! We had a fun evening celebrating with two great families, and have been enjoying leftovers for the last several days.

The day after Thanksgiving, Scott climbed up into the attic and got down all our Christmas stuff! This year I could hardly wait 'til after Thanksgiving to set it all up. The boys and I have been listening to Christmas music for the last 3 weeks...

Even though we were sweating in the 80 degree weather while we assembled our tree, it still feels like the Christmas season is here!


Ian loves the carol-playing moose from my childhood. When my sister finds out this moose now lives at my house, I bet she will be a little jealous...
Ian found a strand of bells and enthusiastically shouted "Dingle Bell! Dingle Bell!" The singing leader in nursery brings similar bells for the kids and Ian was eager to show us what he had been learning. But by this point, Ian was tired of all the pictures I was taking. So he took his bells and went to hide in the corner.
Our tree-topper is a pair of doves that adorned a present we received at our wedding.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Ian

Here is some of what Ian has been up to lately. During these activities, Joseph was most likely to have been sleeping. Or eating.

Drinking Orange Julius. Scott has made this a Saturday morning tradition. Ian calls it "yummy drink".
Good to the last drop.
Finding and then kicking back with "Daddy's buttons". They are forbidden, and therefore he loves them.
Rearranging the furniture, hiding cars under the cushions, and then taking a nap with "Da bunny an' da binkie"
Growing another mullet.Haircut number 2. He did not remain calm during this procedure. Helping Daddy with the dishes, i.e. banging a whisk on the sink. Check out the new haircut.

Nursery

Here is Ian on his first day of nursery

Ian is now old enough to begin nursery at our church, which means that now we only have to wrestle to keep him calm and quiet for the first meeting, and then he gets to go off to learn about Jesus and play and eat snacks for the remaining two hours with a bunch of other kids his age. Scott and I have spent the last 9 months of church pacing the halls with Ian, dreaming of the day when Ian would begin nursery. And yet, like some other anticipated milestones I can think of, this transition was heart wrenching for me.

After all, Ian and I have spent very little of his 19.5 months apart. I have been the primary overseer of his learning and growth. And I like it that way. It is hard for me to know that when he goes to nursery, there is a part of his life that I will know so little about. His teachers (who I hear are wonderful) will teach him things. He'll play with other kids (and sometimes they might be mean to him!) and I won't be there to watch. He has only been there once, and he has already come home singing songs that someone else taught him. My baby is growing up. From this point onward, I will have less and less control and influence in his life. His world will continue to expand. It hasn't helped that I have had nightmares of going to pick Ian up from nursery, only to discover that the nursery leaders let some kidnapper pick Ian up after nursery. I know this nursery thing is far more dramatic for me than for many mothers. But tell me... am I the only one who felt this way?

As I sat at home with Joseph while Ian and Scott were at church last Sunday, I actually found myself watching the clock, thinking... "Okay, it's 3:13. Sacrament meeting is over and now they are walking to nursery." "Now it's 3:50. Ian is totally in nursery." "It's 5:05, Scott is probably going to pick him up right now!" Thankfully, Scott knows and loves me, and called at 5:10 pm on his way home from church to report that Ian loved nursery and was coming home safe and sound.

Don't get me wrong -- nursery is going to be great for me. I am thrilled to be going to Sunday School and Relief Society tomorrow, knowing that I will be able to stay more than the first 4 minutes. (Of course, the countdown begins for Joseph to become the squirmer/screamer who we pace the halls with.)

And I am relieved that Ian has taken to nursery quite readily. He actually could have started going to nursery almost two months ago, but between the hurricane, Stake and General Conference, and a new baby in the family, we just haven't been to church much. So there wasn't any easing Ian into nursery like I had expected. And I'd been prepared for Ian to have a hard time with the adjustment, too. But Scott tells me Ian was eager to play from the beginning, and after changing Ian's diaper and bringing him back to nursery, Ian just marched right back in and didn't look back. This kid was supposed to be going through separation anxiety. But apparently nursery is cool enough to make a kid forget his parents.

Hopefully I will be able to drop Ian off at nursery tomorrow and not linger by the door for the next 2 hours. Heaven help me when Ian starts all-day Kindergarten.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

5 weeks Old

Joseph is now nearly 6 weeks old. Here are some stats from his one month appointment, though the measurements were taken when he was 5 weeks old.

Weight: 11lbs 4.5 oz, 90%
Height: 22 1/4 ", 75%
Head Circ: 15, 50%

Joseph has gained 3 lbs in just 3 weeks, and has grown an inch and a half since birth! It is fun to see his cheeks fill out, and now that he feels sturdier, I worry less about what Ian can do to him.

While Ian is working on being "gentle" and "soft" when he touches Joseph, these sentiments usually surface after he has flung a block at Joseph, or pretended --oops-- actually, stepped on Joseph's back during 'tummy time'. I love that after Ian is scolded for his treatment toward Joseph, Ian always gets a sympathetic look and then makes a motion like he is tousling Joseph's hair. Which is really funny, because Joseph is completely bald, except for a fringe of dark hair that hangs around the back of his head.

Here, Joseph was snuggled up on Scott's lap, when Ian come over and rearranged things to make room for himself.
Ian looks comfy, and Joseph looks like he doesn't care that he isn't.

But actually, I think Ian likes Joseph these days, and is always quick to notify me when he hears Joseph over the baby monitor: "Baby Joseph sad. Joseph cry." Followed by "Go get him. Right back. Hurry Hurry." It is fun to see Ian taking on what seems like a watchful big brother's role. He even offers Joseph his binkie, a privilege rarely granted to anyone else.

These days, Joseph is developing a more regular eating and sleeping schedule. It emerged on it's own, but I like it, so I have been careful to enforce it. He usually wakes up just before 7 am, and begins a cycle of eat, 'play' for 1 hour, sleep for 2, then do it again. He does this until around 7 pm, at which point he eats every 3.5 to 6 (!) hours and then goes immediately back to sleep. And thank goodness for it-- I have learned that I am quite tied to the regularity and dependability of schedules, and the whole irregularity of newborness had been hard for me. Without a schedule how on earth do you know what they are crying for?! And when you can sneak away to use the restroom? Or take a nap? So now that we near the 6 week mark, we are all feeling a little more normal. Finally! Phew! I think we can do this two-kid thing after all!

Here is Ian enjoying his favorite pastime; building "big, big, bunny house". Notice his favorite rabbit lounging inside.

Monday, November 3, 2008

Halloween 2008

Ian was delighted to start the day by putting on his beloved "Boo Shirt", given to him by our good friend Susan. The ghost on it lights up with orange lights when the shirt moves. I have heard almost daily request for the shirt since he received it, and every time we opened Ian's closet in the last month, Ian has shrieked with excitement for his "Boo Shirt".


Our good friend's Sarah and Ryan gave Joseph this "Baby's First" shirt. Their little boy Andrew, who is a month older than Joseph, has a matching one.
Here is our puppy. Remember our puppy from last year?
We took the boys to our ward Trunk or Treat, where families backed their cars into spaces at the church parking lot, and the kids Trick or Treated to all the decorated car trunks. It was so fun to see Ian Trick or Treating for the first time. He was a little too shy to say "Trick or Treat" like we had practiced, but he did enjoy himself.

Here are Joseph and Andrew. It was fun to get out and see some of our friends and introduce them to Joseph.

What a Cool Kid


I want to brag about my little Ian. Several nights ago, Scott asked Ian to pray at dinner time. And he did! Scott helped Ian with what to say (with Ian giggling every few sentences) and then Ian completed the prayer with "Jesus Christ, Amen!" all by himself. He has since done it two more times, with help. I am so proud!

Ian has been clasping his hands for prayers for a while now, but kneeling down for a prayer before bedtime is a newer skill. Several nights ago, I heard Ian get up and roam around the room during his bedtime prayer, but I peaked to see him drop to his knees and fold his arms just as Scott finished the prayer. What a little sneak! Several weeks ago, I went to get Ian up in the morning and he was kneeling in his crib with his little hands clasped and he kept saying "Pear! Pear!" Wearing his blue stripped footy PJs, it was adorable.

Last night we noticed Ian had quickly learned many of the words to some new children's songs. So we decided to test him and see if he had already learned the words to some of the songs we have been singing since his infancy. Sure enough, when we sang the first part of a line from "I am a Child of God," and then paused, Ian would smile and then complete the last few words of the line! He knows almost the entire first verse of that and several other primary songs. All those days singing the same songs over and over and over and over again... it wasn't in vain!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Family of Four

Joseph is 3 weeks old today. It seems like much longer, and simultaneously, I can't grasp how 3 whole weeks have passed so quickly. It must have something to do with all that sleeping I did while my mom was here to help out, followed by the lack of sleep Scott and I have experienced in the last several nights. As a side note, I often catch a quick snooze on the couch while Ian plays on the floor, and because of this, Ian tells on me when Scott gets home, saying "Mommy seeps", as if he is exposing a big secret.

Both boys are sleeping right now, so before I go catch a nap, here are some pictures of what we have been up to.

Joseph is a sweet baby. He loves to be held, and when he gets upset, just picking him up is usually all it takes to comfort him. Unfortunately, an extra pair of arms is hard to come by. He has lost most of the hair on the middle top of his head, but still has some nice patches on the sides and back. Joseph only likes to be held upright on your shoulder. He loves to be swaddled. He has a very strong little neck and does great with tummy time. He nearly always poops while I change his diaper.


Joseph sleeps in some strange positions, often with his neck arched.

Ian asks to hold Joseph about once a day. Usually he chickens out when Joseph gets close to him.
The whole family went for a walk about 2.5 weeks after Joseph was born. It was so nice for me to get out of the house, even if I was too sore to walk very far. It was actually quite cold that evening, so we tried out Joseph's car seat cover.


Awwww. I love watching Scott with our boys. Ian likes to come lay near Joseph during diaper changes and tummy time. Doesn't it look like they are elbowing each other?

Joseph doing "dummy dime", as Ian puts it.
Scott had his 28th birthday on Saturday! He counted it as a good birthday because he played flag football with some guys in our ward, and then watched a BYU game that night.



When I served up the cake, Ian climbed on the table and started to devour the largest piece. We were amazed at how much he ate.
Ian loves playing with cars. He likes driving them down this box.
Joseph lost his umbilical cord on Sunday, so last night we gave him his first bath.